Ninja Scooter
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HELL. FUCKING. YES. i would. But there would have to be some conditions. She would have to be someone i wasn't in any kind of relationship with (work, friend, ect..) and i can't know the husband.
Teknopathetic said:Do you jump at the opportunity to prove everything I've said about you?
Loki said:Nor was I trying to. I'm intelligent enough to realize that I can't outsmart you, Duane.
No, but the quality of the arguments you advance as a justification for your beliefs does say something about your intelligence.
Far be it from me to call someone who merely disagrees with my personal morality "unintelligent"; when their reasoning is suspect and their evidence tenuous, however, I feel that I'm justified in making that call.
You have made several indefensible statements that do not square with history, sociology, philosophy, or law; the fact that you refuse to recant said statements is evidence of your foolishness and your intransigence.
If you're a moral relativist, then we shouldn't even be having this conversation, as no common ground will ever be reached.
My personal argument "against" moral relativism is that certain ideologies and practices have produced tangible results in terms of highly functional societies. When we look for the common denominators in said societies, we witness certain features/beliefs; this can lead us to draw conclusions about the relative merit of certain propositions. When we can trace the effects of a belief or practice throughout history and calculate its import (or inutility, as it may be), we can begin to deduce the objective validity of said beliefs and praxes. Such a functional theory of morality, which has real-world analogues, is not as easily assailable by relativists as more abstract moral frameworks are.
First off, I think you should note that I have made few appeals to purely philosophical "morality" (i.e., moral absolutism); for the most part, I have focused on the utility of, and justification for, certain societal beliefs and practices. It is in this sense that what you advocate is immoral, as it does not comport with the way a sound society conducts its business, as borne out by history. You're basically a hedonist except for when the law bars you from being such, and you have a dim understanding of the relationship between beliefs, institutions (the latter flows directly from the former), and their role in the maintenance of a society.
A certain variability of conduct between societies, or variable moral/ethical interpretations of actions within a single society, is expected and understandable, and your examples above are all instances of this. These are not fundamental to the maintenance of society; things such as marriage are. The integrity of contracts in general are. A contract is entered into with an expectation as to the fulfillment of its terms and conditions. If you want to change that so that it better comports with your feral sensibilities, then go and change the terms and conditions of the agreement-- don't just blithely point to nature and relativism as an "out" when they are nothing of the sort; you only betray your own ignorance in doing so.
It is, however, the pinnacle of civilization (at least presently), as measured by any objective standard you'd care to proffer. Feel free to disregard that, or call it "ethnocentric", but western values and ideals have shaped these societies into places of great functionality and achievement. The day I see tons of people emigrating from the US, Britain, Canada, and France to places like Grenada, Saudi Arabia, Vietnam, or Croatia is the day I concede that all cultures are of equal worth. Every culture has good and noble features, and these deserve to be lauded and maintained by its people; however, don't be so foolish as to assume that all cultures are equal. This belief is simply an outgrowth of your more general moral relativism, which I do not agree with for the stated reasons. However you'd care to define "success", the western world has it in spades while many other places do not. But you go on continuing to believe that western ideals and institutions, of the sort you're trying to tear down and/or discount, had absolutely nothing to do with the ascension of western society.
See above. Also, the problem is not that different societies have different beliefs, but that you're in a society which has a certain tradition and belief and you are discounting and/or trying to undermine it based on spurious reasoning. Just as I can't go to Saudi Arabia and expect religious tolerance, so should you not be in the United States and expect people's notions regarding the propriety of adultery to conform to yours.
Here's a news flash: religion itself has been a great socializing force in the world, and many of its features and values have become incorporated into western civilization and its guiding philosophy (it wasn't all Crusades and terrorism, you know); none of this, however, changes the utility of these beliefs/institutions, as their effects can be directly observed as opposed to merely speculated about.
No worries, as you exhibit both. But just keep pointing to ocelots and aardvarks as justification for your liaisons. It suits you well.
A lack of scruples, apparently.
:lol
Do you realize how much of a child you sound like? What are you, like 26 years old? What a shame. Yeah, you're "more of a man" than he is-- because we all know that the measure of a man is his sexual prowess. The law of the wild, indeed; more evidence of your affinity for hedonism and your desire to elevate "natural law" to the law of human societies.
Like I said, you don't want social Darwinism-- you only want it when it suits you. I could just as easily say that the rich should exploit the poor as far as possible, because they have power and should seek to retain it-- but your flagrant communism doesn't quite square with Darwinism in that case, now, does it. All of a sudden you want law, ideals, and philosophy-- you want civilization. You're a hypocrite in that sense, not to mention an unscrupulous, profligate twit. Your ill-considered idiocy has been allowed to go unspoken to for far too long. You pollute threads with the worst sort of reasoning, frequently holding up the worst of human conduct as admirable-- a clear indication of your broken moral compass. You're a joke, and I don't say that often. I've held my tongue many times, but will do so no longer.
The rich stick it to the poor, and this is as it should be, because the poor are weak, and don't deserve to survive. Sound good to you? Thought not.
I'm sure it's not that hard to do...if you have no sense of decency about you, that is. Unfortunately, I was raised to be a decent and honorable person, and you were obviously not. You act like there's some big mystery to having casual sex. News flash: licentiousness is not hard-- if anything, it's easy. In many cases, too easy.
Though I personally find such a notion distasteful, I would not have condemned it verbally if we were speaking of two single people. I am a believer in personal liberty-- people can do as they wish, even as you are allowed to post your rubbish on a public board with no consequence. What I took (and take) issue with is the fact that there is a very important social compact here which is being violated, and you are using sophistry to try and justify it.
Thug life, yo-- keepin' it real. What a way to live. It's sad that this is what we've come to as a people. Do you shed and shit in public, too? Because you might as well be an animal, really. Darwinism when it suits you, Duane...Darwinism when it suits you. You're a fraud.